In all seriousness….. I am an addict in recovery

Many years ago when I stopped drinking and using various drugs….. I called that sobriety. I have recently come to the conclusion that I have come a very long way…. And have many miles to go. My personality is such that over time I have made various things my ā€œdrugā€ of choice. Sex Exercise Nicotine…

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Leery…….

Ā I am sorry for your loss ……. I am glad for you and your success ( but I am leery when your emotional state becomes more about you…. And less about the ā€œevent ā€œ) I am doggedly convinced that ā€œexcess ā€œ in any form is emotionally and mentally exhausting and therefore damaging ….., too high…

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Filing Cabinet šŸ—„ļøā€¦.. Escape

Now I’m not pretending that I am thin….. but there just wasn’t enough room in the folder šŸ“‚ you put me in…. you left it ajar and I took the cue …. Gathered a few things and was done with you I realize you will be dismayed with the selective plans you made…. But the…

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Disrespect…….

Everyone at times feels like they don’t deserve to be blessed……. and probably there is some truth to that…… however, if we have received a blessing, it is good to humbly acknowledge and appreciate it. God, the Creator and Giver of all things enjoys seeing His Children appreciate and utilize those gifts šŸŽ. So no…

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Eating my way through Asia……

Grateful that as a child I was encouraged to try new foods. My father had a taste for strong and pungent flavors. He loved sardines…. Salted Herring….. brains…. Liver…. and liverworst. When we had chicken there were rarely any bones 🦓 left on his plate, he ate them. A habit I have mostly embraced, except…

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The Man that I forgot…..

The man that I forgot has come back to me, though I did all I could to sever my ties with him. Turns out he was always waiting for me to stop playing a role I had assigned to myself and never followed the script anyway. Lending itself to ā€œactsā€ that had no cohesion to…

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3….. lanes in life

Turns out there are 3 lanes in life Emergency Slower lane Fast lane The Speed in which you maneuver through the traffic of life determines if you get to your destination in a safe and observant manner. There are times when each lane is appropriate A good ā€œdriveā€ should be timely but not hurried. With…

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