The discernment to determine what is imperative to know and what has no benefit….is an acquired skill

(the presented situation)

a difficulty exists between two

what resolution is achieved must be beneficial to both

we both agree to modify our expectations to resolve the situation

your adjustments are agreeable to me

and you accept my adjustments and they are agreeable

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this phase is the most difficult for most of us

-agreement-

instead often we push and prod for the specific things or thoughts that led them to their adjustments…. Opening the door 🚪 for two overly sensitive people to find something to derail what was achieved

put the shovel 🪏 down

– when to dig….. when to put the shovel down-

definitely an acquired skill

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oboe the hobo