Connoisseur……
It takes time to refine one’s tastes in all areas of life
Indulging in what crosses one’s path is appropriate until we have enough confidence and experience to alter our path if what we are presented with doesn’t suit our developing palate
when we begin to savor and cherish certain experiences then we begin to modify our consumption to satisfy these memories and become selective
to clear the mind’s palate one must constantly scrub it of lingering thoughts and opinions that separate us from the truth …….about anything or anyone
how is the truth revealed……time
so when time uncovers a misaligned thought or action……we accept the error of our ways and take necessary precautions to ensure a repeat doesn’t occur……for only a fool continues to embrace ideas and beliefs that time has exposed as solid as Swiss Cheese…..
leave pomposity and arrogance out of your persona
rather be selective of people, places and things to you liking
but please don’t think for a moment that behavior patterns are written in stone….. they are preferences given what is available
that being said…… if I am freezing I will not refuse a cost many seasons out of style …… if I am hungry I will be grateful for what is offered
One can be selective without being pompous or arrogant…….and the art when it is refined should go unnoticed
because after all taste is a personal matter
almost david