If anything good comes through I better be looking at me……and not you…….if things are up in the air……I need to be on the ground…..that’s where the stuff I relate to can be found….for when I’m looking at you and not me…..everything that is wrong with you becomes obvious to me……. Because it easier to judge you than work on me……so you can remind me if you need to….I need to be looking at me and not worrying about you……ttucro