when i talk about you………i talk about me…….what i see in you…….i have in me……..what i do to you i do to me………my behavior towards you always effects me, more than you…………

when i lash out at you, i lash out at me…….i expect to offer understanding and grace that i don’t offer to you……………

looking at this quick list it’s pretty easy to see…i care a great deal about myself and think little of thee…………………….

gossip is arrows of fear and poison………..they often miss you but they always hit me…….

admittance is the first step in correction……ttucro