i can see it bothers you to tell it like it is……a softer tone with laces and fringe would be your color of choice………and i will do my best to pick a softer hue, but it’s hard when my eyes see red, to try to be subdued …………….your rationale is one i’ve used as i went along my merry way, but somewhere along the path we trip and find cause to look from where we came, and as i was struggling to regain my feet, i saw the pain and misery i had caused by my deceit…….so continue on your merry way but somewhere you will slip and the change in altitude will give you a perspective that you lack…………so you pick a color you prefer but when it’s said and done the darkness of the lies we live will take many coats of paint.