Making peace with reality has to be done or one is in a constant battle to change things they find unacceptable…….
that’s fine if they are truly not going to work

but if it’s just a matter of not what you would prefer

you are going to be in a constant war

I’m sitting by my mother in a nursing home listening to her snoring……not my preference but I’m here

the list of not my “first choice” could go on and on

but what good would that do…… better to spend the time determining how to work with what’s in front of me

it has to be done……making peace with reality

nothing accomplished by wishful thinking

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