“ you should have hung in there, you made a commitment”…….

yes I sure did until the other half was skating along doing what was required when the tension got to great.

and I got rigorously honest and said can I do this for the rest of my life ……… no

we have one life and I am responsible for its trajectory and it’s outcome…..

does that make me”selfish” or courageous and bold

life can be hard….. living a lie is harder