Obvious

You would think obvious and direct would be welcomed ……… scares the hell out of people “ I don’t understand……..you are saying this is what you want and what you’re willing to give to receive it…….that’s a little too direct…….that’s not how the game is played…” Exactly….  too complicated for me….not a gamer Ttucro

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Plain to See

Pretty plain to see….. I’ve got something for you You have something for me We all have an intrinsic need…… to have someone to share our dreams The result is something familiar…..but new The combining of two dreams……… become one……. ttucro

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Eyes Wide Open……please

Don’t pretend I’m your friend……unless I act like one……. Don’t hesitate to ask for the information that helps you feel respected and valued…….if it makes you feel uncomfortable…….stop……and get it straight and clear or disengage…….wrapped up in one’s feelings is dangerous……and throwing caution to the wind is akin to urinating in the wind……with less than…

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Church of the Misguided Souls

 Come on in…… welcome to the “ Church of the Misguided Souls”……..we meet every day of the year and please introduce yourself by your first name….full name if you are comfortable we already know your story…….many of us have similar experiences…..so if it’s okay with you we would like to go from here and let…

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Needless to say……

What a minute……we have all these words that conjure all sorts of conceptions and misconceptions….so use them…….wisely Stop pushing yourself or others to respond……speaking after thoughtful contemplation usually produces good communication…… a dominant portion of the words we present are in fact……… needless to say —————————————————————————— join the war against blabbering…… ttucro

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Eat your cake……you made it ….fraud

Whatever we profess to be…..we aren’t….at least to the extent we think we are what need would there be for such proclamations…..we simply would walk out our beliefs and that would be our faith our feet and our hands would speak and our lips are closed my aspirations are a far cry from the foundation…

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That was kind…..

Kindness has many forms and the tendency is to focus on the marshmallow fluffy ones but they are received fast and gone almost as quick But the forms that take on tough subjects and test the mettle of the giver and receiver are the difference makers…….. they are given because someone cares…….enough to offer a…

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