So we feel a power outside of ourselves and we want that power inside…..we learn about that power from others and soon realize that is their concept and we need to find our own…,and we do….. doesn’t take long before we realize that we aren’t going to live up to the ideals we are presented with….and we give up…. Quickly finding out that isn’t going to work……so we enter into the “Great Compromise”……agreeing to do our best and realizing we will never be perfect…..a hard pill to swallow…..ttucro