It is u who made the choices to end up wherever u are….. blaming others for our mistakes is like driving blind in a car ……. When you hear the bump because you hit something and felt a jar…..you’ll get out an reprimand the person you hit for walking to close to the road……sometimes something will shake you enough to open your closed mind …..or many go on about their way……never owning the decisions that they made…….it is u.             Ttucro