Be prepared to spend more than you think when doing acts of kindness…..it is rarely an easy affair…..that is the sequence.  1….the feeling of concern…2…..the act of reaching out physically…mentally….financially…..3…the obstacle….there is always an obstacle to test your metal and commitment 4……the blessing….to those who receive it with humility and to the giver…..if given with no expectations……..ttucro