ask…….if you want to know/ listen if you care

i posed this question to a few friends……..”how will you remember me”…………their answers made me think of how i am perceived………………….one said……….”dedicated”, another said ”faithful”………………..and still another said ”wacky”…………………….

so from their perspective i am a dedicated, faithful, wacky guy………………..i can work with that and it tells me my perception and their perception isn’t that far off and that is important to me………………to be the person i think i am……..

i will continue to ask these questions for the rest of my life………………….i always misinterpret when i assume…………………………but why bother to ask……………..if you are going to listen

2 Comments

  1. Susan on July 23, 2020 at 12:32 am

    I will remember you as a talented, deep, witty man on a journey. Looking forward to joining in some of those journeys in the years to come.



    • dbubbaorcutt@gmail.com on July 23, 2020 at 12:41 am

      what a lovely thing to say from a dear friend…………..tell Elly about the Circus