the acceptable lie
the acceptable lie……………has infiltrated you and i and it has become part of our culture…..
would that a friend……………say was was on his or her mind then languish trying to find words that disguise their feelings……………….
nothing worse than leaving a friend trying to determine what they were hiding………………if we are afraid of how the truth will be accepted we are neither a friend nor talking to one………….
there are no acceptable lies im my relationships…………..and if you value my friendship and i value yours we will respect each other enough to tell the truth as unpleasant as it is……..and shake hands and work from there……………..
virtually impossible to find resolution if at first you have to uncover and dispel lies…..
tell me the truth