i understand the tendency to struggle when confronting someone with an issue you know they are not willing to discuss……………i get it……………….

now the dividing line is whether the issue can wait……….safely, or whether it has the potential to create lifelong consequences……………..

if it falls into the latter category……………..pray about it and go for it…………………….

that would be ”perfect love” and it casts out………………….all fear

love is stronger than fear