when we stop…………………..blaming

when we stop blaming our eyes upon up to things we could not beforehand see

answers seem to appear out of nowhere perhaps because we stop wasting energy

and things that looked impossible fall almost effortlessly into place……what had looked like a mountain…..now seems more like a hill

the answers are within us but we so often take the quick ”fix”……blaming others to take the responsibility off of us but it never resolves…… only causes unnecessary friction….and delays the pain

the pain of accepting responsibility for our present and future conditions and taking the focus off what others are doing wrong and onto what we are doing right

the moment you stop the blame game………you gain a perspective few enjoy