i would rather take the opportunity to humble myself instead of you confronting me and that happens if i am willing to be honest and admit i have a part in the current calamity…………..has nothing to do with blame rather taking responsibility for my actions to seek resolution……..

a person willing to admit and embrace less then appropriate behavior is moving to eliminate such responses in the future…..

i humble myself not to say how terrible i am but to advance towards the person i want to become