for all intent and purposes in the scope of things i am just a grain of sand………………put in the proper perspective that is what i am………….so that would mean there are two ways to perceive………..one, i am not that important or two having the courage as most grains don’t…………………to be the grain i am supposed to be without regard or concern what others think………that would be the difference…………………….to be a courageous grain of sand……………..makes me the man i am