when we are young we do as we are told and most of that guidance is good…………….but it can’t all be because it comes from humans that are injured or scared……so they base their lives around protecting the injuries and hurts……………..which may or may not be similar experiences in our own lives…………so when you take over the reins go back over those things and question those that don’t feel right………counsel with friends and begin again……………..remember this is your life……

we are all born with an internal compass and what isn’t right for one may be correct for another…….set your course with the coordinates that seem right to you and when your learn different accept it and adjust the set of your sails as needed………………you are the source of the wind in your sail……….the trick is keeping a steady breeze………neither doldrums nor gales……

steady as she goes