you win, because i defer to you, the things you said were far better than my excuse, so i capitulate and throw in the towel, but i may have learned a little, so i didn’t lose………..there are many ways to take things in your life, some don’t leave much room to decide, but most have the leeway that you can accept them as they are and you can file the lesson away without any scars…..we can wear our emotions on our sleeve at times, and sometimes that’s appropriate………….but not many………………………live, love, learn and most of all listen……………it will go well for you………………..when you are wrong, the sooner you drop the attitude of defeat and look at it as a lesson….you grow and move on………………………hard words, but good words, ”thank-you you were right”