when i place me above all else i see, it prevents me from being part of, and if i resist being part of , how will i learn and grow……my encounters with thoughts and actions i detest will reinforce what i know, and will help me see that our individuality can be an asset or a stone…….anything that separates me from others is a valuable tool or a curse, and the wisdom to know the difference isn’t always easy to discern……….i might find what you do appalling to me from lack of knowledge or experience……..or your actions go against my core beliefs as far as my personal conduct…..it is a tricky thing to place one in the judges seat and sometimes we have no other choice, wherein lies the challenge………what is wrong for me may not be wrong for you, and i must avoid letting my personality send you to the dungeon when i can walk away.

my personality wants to judge and correct you, my spirituality wants to accept you…….not condone nor condemn, just accept.