we unfortunately don’t know……………we assume
so we don’t have all the pieces so we go with what we have….we fill in the spaces……with the things that we find…….problem with this approach we are driven by impatience and fear………what we end up is distorted projections, disconnected from reality.
the fix for assumption goes against human nature it’s called ”waiting”..one,if not the hardest things to change in our character is the acquisition of patience…………..but a more valuable trait would be hard to come by.
assumption is the trap we set for ourselves when we aren’t patient enough to find the truth.