when i have a negative thought about what you say or do, i substitute an arrow prayer, for me not really for you……………….for i cannot change your actions nor your attitude, but i can choose how it affects me by praying a blessing for you……………matters not who is right or wrong that is not in my responsibilities…………………..but i can have a choice in how i let your negativity influence me

”God may the good things i want for myself be given to this person first, if it be thine will”

the neutralizer that has no match……and always works