if i am insecure about me, i will need your scrutiny, and perhaps your stamp of approval would help me………………to feel better about my identity

the need to be noticed is a definite sign that i’m not confidant about whom i am, and if i need you to authenticate me………………….that says more about me then i’ll willing to see

the goal is to feel you are using the tools that you were given when you entered this world and though it took some time before you learned their use, the help is there if you choose………..and if you are doing the best you can to be a contributor and help where you can, others approval will be of little use because they don’t have your mission and they don’t wear your shoes

”you” be the best ”you” and everything else is advertisement