you have a choice so take a shot, because what you have is keeping you blocked, from being able to see there are good things happening, but you have covered them up with self-pity.

staying stuck is up to you, there is not a lot we can do, because we have pulled you from the ditch before and you take keep taking your eyes off the road and once again we get the call………………….that switch is in your head……………and you decide what you are going to focus on………………your problems……………or solutions

go for it……..flip the switch