i hurt too
when my brother is distraught, i dare not turn away, for it is my duty as a friend to suffer through the pain with him.
it is not in my power to take his suffering away, but i care help him carry the load until he finds his way.
i want others to have that concern for me and if i want that love from them they must feel that love from me.
the axiom : ”you cannot get what you cannot give” is a great place to start