handicapped not crippled
see i’m on this journey and some people just call it life
but then again some people take the trash out, breathe and go to work…………they call that life
to me life is embracing what comes before you and doing your best to dig in as far as you can and
accept and appreciate what you find
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i’m sitting on a bench feeding the ducks that come in off the pond
guy rolls up in a wheelchair and we nod at each others presence and he begins to do the same
we sit in silence enjoying the sun on a laid back Sunday afternoon……………..peaceful
car pulls up behind us and a couple of guys roll out with their dog who begins chasing and harassing the ducks
i’m a dog owner and a dog lover, so i’m not blaming the dog, but the owner who is wearing a blue jean jacket
with a nazi swastika emblem on the back
i call him over, ”you know man your dog is supposed to be on a leash, if the park patrol comes by they will fine you and impound your dog, hate to see that”
his reply, ” F….. you man always someone trying to tell me what to do”
”society has rules, so we can get along” i reply
he calls his dog and they get in the car and leave
my friend in the wheelchair says, ” now that is the difference between someone who is handicapped, like myself
and someone who is crippled”
” i am physically challenged and i have my struggles, but my life is pretty good. That guy could win the lottery and still be miserable, you either have a good attitude or you have nothing.”
with that he shook my hand and rolled away
he taught me the difference between handicapped and crippled.