growing up……………….a little
i can be wrong and still have a good day
seeing a hole initially makes me afraid
but i have to look through it, it’s not going away
so reluctantly i start going over the facts………..honestly, and see what needs to be changed
i will look for the shortest route to take, to get what i want to go, taking whatever i want along the way
the problem with that approach is that it’s all about me
and from that limited perspective it’s difficult to really see
the easier softer way isn’t what i thought
it’s facing your problems and humbling yourself
because refusing to address things that are right in your face
causes more pain and many more mistakes
roll up your sleeves and start shoveling until you can see the problem