sometimes lose on purpose

it will broaden your point of view

not so hard to accept if it is something that you choose

don’t make a big deal that will ruin the desired effect

just go along with the winner and accommodate  their wish

notice how they take their victory and pretend you were in their shoes

are they gracious upon winning or are they trying to rub it in

the point is now you have perspective seen through a new set of eyes

you made the choice to defer to win so you could learn something about yourself

the real victory is yours, but no one else needs to know

way to go