it’s important that who you think you are matches up to who you are

the disconnect comes from an inability or a lack of desire to be honest with yourself

• i like to think i am kind…………………….do i do kind and considerate things
• i think i am a good friend……………….when it’s convenient or even when it puts me out
• i like to think i am honest………………………when i have no choice or when i do have a choice

the illusions i try to live by, like a boomerang come back and whack me on the head

two choices:  1/ i can do it, grudgingly 2/ the world will do it for me

either way the correction will come