when want passes need………………………….be ready to hit your knees cause you are headed for trouble when want passes need starts out slow till it picks up speed then it’s hellbent on having whatever it seeks logic gets pushed aside, thrown out the door and the wisest friends are often ignored we know what we want…

I woke up this morning, not came to, thank God, and a thought came across my noggin, ” what is the worst mistake I can make” well the initial thought that came in my mind, probably because I am a control freak is that I should think that i am in charge of anything I…

change can play these strange games comes like summer, sometimes like spring,cold as winter, soft as rain…………………..you never know what change will bring sometimes its sneaky, but most times it’s abrupt, like someone bumping into your hot coffee cup often we don’t like it, but that’s just tough, cause you are never gonna stop change…

blame is an ugly game and it does little to make things right better to say didn’t work out the best way,  maybe we should do things different next time when someone is put on the spot, it becomes a blot and sometimes it never goes away so try to find a way, non-threatening to…

if something has you blocked, probably a reason you needed to stop before you start to fret, look under the rock rarely are things just like they seem, it’s an opportunity to look before you scream what started as a block, turns out to be something you dropped, an opportunity to go back and pick…

well it is a bit easier coming from myself than it would be coming from you so before we cross that bridge, I am placing myself under a ”gag” order self-imposed, probably before it is suggested from someone else generally we can tell if we are getting to close to the flame, so I’m backing…

seems odd to admit this at first………………………my ego wants to get in there and say” so sad, that’s it ” but i have to drop the ”poor me ” and think about what has happened in the last 13 years and 318 days………………straight up ”miracles” i have had the same job for 8 years and…

i was troubled and i was wondering if i had lost my way and a voice said” look inside today, and i think what you will find, you have become a prisoner of your mind” that message wasn’t loud but it was clear, so i finished my coffee and got the hell out of here…

as i grow older, isn’t it crazy when people say that, if you are breathing you are getting older duhhhh… but anyway…………………..I am constantly amazed at the power and skill involved in being a good listener finding out, if i am thinking how to respond i am not listening, i am more concerned about what…

the  prescription i use when nothing else works, doesn’t come in a bottle or a box for everything it has fixed, don’t know why i don’t go there first but i’ll hem and haw, complain and fret and when all else fails, i’ll hit my knees and throw up a prayer the answer isn’t immediate…