think you know someone…………..okay

want to understand that person on a different level?

take time to notice the manner in which they do common place things

• eat………………..do they enjoy food or just eating to stay alive
• drink……………the length of time they hydrate may give you insight as to how long it was before their last drink…..are they in patterns or not?
• smile……………………forced or natural
• the amount of time it takes before responding to statements or questions………………tells you if they are really listening or thinking about their reply
• how they share…… or not……………………………this is a surefire way to tell the generosity of a person and it has proven to be very accurate……..if you are with someone and they open their purse or dig in their pocket and help themselves to a mint or stick of gum and don’t offer……………………………….you are in the presence of a very self-centered person…..you just gotta look
• everything means something……….has to                       you may not want to know someone or everyone at this level, i understand that……………………………..but you might not want to wake up after a twenty-five year relationship and ask yourself, how did i miss that and who in the hell did i spend all these years with

i’m just sayin’              look if you wanna know……………if it doesn’t matter…………………….., here’s a stick…….it just looks like a snake