• arrogance…………………………………don’t you know who i am
• selfishness………………………….how is this going to affect me
• resentments……………………………….you probably have never done anything like that
• fear…………………………………….not having the courage to find out all the information and filling in the blanks with misconceptions
• revenge………………………………….you did that on purpose………..maybe….maybe not………i’ll get you back by tormenting myself over the issue until i can justify doing something childish that will only make things worse……………….forgiveness is for everyone involved
• anger………………………………………you have crossed the line…………………..that hurt my feelings……………………….which is actually saying you touched a nerve from my past, so you are going to receive all this emotion I have been saving
• assumptions…………………………………….to lazy to ask, leaves the door open for chaos

just a few but that should do for a start